Workshops, classes, and outings

What is an Orientation?

After you have joined the group you can attend any level 1 event that interests you. In order to become fully active in the group we require you to attend an Orientation. This full-evening of activity introduces our ideas and mission, explains how our group and events work, and includes some fun interactive games. These occur on the third Sunday of every month. After orientation, if you are invited into the group, you may attend other events.

Our events

SexPositive events are coded Level 1 through Level 3

Level One 

Friendly, flirtatious, and playful, but non-sensual. Activities might include workshops, classes, meet and greets, book clubs, eating, or dancing.

Level Two 

Sensual, increasingly flirtatious, but not sexual. Activities might include workshops or classes with nudity or live demonstrations, light touching, sexy dancing, massage, or kissing.

Level Three 

Activities might include intimate touch, playful exploration between individuals, couples, or groups.

At events you are expected be respectful of the boundaries of others and of the event, to take care of yourself, and honor your boundaries and agreements. Beyond that, anything else is up to you. You will never be expected to do anything you don't want to, or to interact with anyone you don’t wish to. But we do expect you to contribute to the vibe through positive social interaction. Sex-positivity is about authentic, respectful, open communication, and being honest about your desires.

Upcoming events

    • 07 Dec 2017
    • 7:00 PM - 9:30 PM
    • Mission Hills San Diego San Diego, California 92103

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    3 Ways Being More Comfortable with Sex Make You a Better Progressive. 
    OR...The Most Unique Holiday Party This Year!
    (Workshop for women & women-identifed folks.)

    “Dr. Jenn was a rock star! She took a room full of strangers and instantly made them comfortable discussing all sorts of sexual topics with each other."

    This fun, interactive workshop is facilitated by Jennifer “Dr. Jenn” Gunsaullus, PhD, who is sociologist & sexologist. 
    We'll explore the following topics:

    -How increasing your sexual comfort and knowledge is a radical act in today’s political climate.
    -How the negative sexual messages from your youth could impact your ability to serve your friends, colleagues, and community.
    -How moving from a fear-based approach in sexual discourse, to one of curiosity and courage, is valuable for our communities.
    -How talking about taboo and embarrassing topics in an open and responsible way can be healing.
    -How to find your voice in awkward workplace situations.*

    Price: $20
    Includes glass of wine and light snacks.

    Must reserve space in advance through this Paypal link:https://www.paypal.com/ cgi-bin/ webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted _button_id=VZMBTVLENRKYY

    *This is not a sexual harassment prevention training or a sexual assault prevention training. However, the foundational values and messages presented here are necessary to shift the social and political landscape of these social ills. Learn more about Dr. Jenn’s work here:http://www.drjennsden.com/

    • 10 Dec 2017
    • 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
    • TBD. North Park Area.

    Join us for a some cocktails and connection at our monthly SPSD Social Mixer. Put a fresh spin on your Thursday night and meet other like-minded folks and your leadership team. Every month a member of our leadership team will be hosting these mixers, with this month's host being our community director, Aaron Bigelbach. This is the perfect opportunity to get to know your community & leadership team, learn about Sex Positive San Diego, our mission and membership, and future events!

    This is a Level 1 event, which means it is in a public place and you are welcome to bring a friend.  This event is a simple social and open to the public. Come when you can and no orientation is required. Introduce yourself, chat, and get to know some of our group members!

    What to bring: Yourself, a guest if you wish (as this is an L1 event, orientation is not a requirement to attend this event), any questions you may have for some of our leadership or senior members.

    Location: TBD, North Park area

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