After you have applied to the group you can attend any level 1 event that interests you. In order to become fully active in the group, we require you to have your application approved, attend an Orientation, and pay yearly member dues. Orientation is a full-evening of activity introduces our ideas and mission, explains how our group and events work, and includes some fun interactive games. These occur every other month at varying locations. After orientation, if your application has been approved and you have paid your yearly member dues, you may attend both L1 & L2 events.
Here's what a few folks have shared after attending an Orientation:
"Orientation was very clear, well-organized and put together. Everything about this event made me feel comfortable with not only my own boundaries, but recognizing and honoring others (especially how to communicate all of that). My heart swelled three sizes at the end when we all got to acknowledge our bravery for tonight."
"The leadership group is amazing! Participants very interesting. Great job. Took a difficult topic and nervous group and turned it into something amazing."
"The atmosphere was welcoming and comfortable. Lots of great information about asking consent. Fabulous job overall. Great info, great group of people. I look forward to attending future events."
Requirements for attending L2 events: Accepted application, paid yearly member dues, attended an Orientation
Requirements for attending L3 events: Attended an advanced boundaries/consent workshop, attend (2) L2 events, attend (1) L2 touch event, leadership approval for L3 status, up to date membership dues paid
At events you are expected be respectful of the boundaries of others and of the event, to take care of yourself, and honor your boundaries and agreements. Beyond that, anything else is up to you. You will never be expected to do anything you don't want to, or to interact with anyone you don’t wish to. But we do expect you to contribute to the vibe through positive social interaction. Sex-positivity is about authentic, respectful, open communication, and being honest about your desires.